10 Surprising Facts About Love and Relationships: Unraveling the Science of Romance

Introduction: Love and relationships are complex and fascinating aspects of human life, and science continues to shed light on their many dimensions. Here are 10 surprising facts about love and relationships, backed by scientific research, to help you better understand the intricacies of romance. These insights may also inspire you to attend our upcoming workshop on love, where we delve deeper into these topics and provide practical advice to enhance your romantic life.

  1. Love has measurable health benefits

Research suggests that love and supportive relationships can lead to better physical and mental health, lower stress levels, and increased longevity (1, 2).

  1. Love at first sight may be scientifically explainable

The phenomenon of love at first sight could be attributed to an instantaneous subconscious recognition of genetically compatible partners or the activation of brain circuits responsible for attraction (3, 4).

  1. Love and addiction share similar brain activities

Studies have shown that the neural pathways activated during the experience of romantic love are similar to those involved in addiction, explaining why love can be so consuming and difficult to let go (5, 6).

  1. Love can relieve pain

The presence of a loving partner can help alleviate physical pain by releasing oxytocin and endorphins, which act as natural painkillers (7).

  1. Couples tend to have similar DNA

Research has found that romantic partners tend to share more genetic similarities than strangers, which may contribute to their compatibility (8).

  1. Opposites don’t always attract

Studies suggest that people are more likely to form lasting relationships with individuals who have similar backgrounds, values, and beliefs (9).

  1. Love can be contagious

Witnessing acts of love and kindness can stimulate the release of oxytocin in onlookers, making them more likely to engage in loving behaviors themselves (10).

  1. Cuddling strengthens relationships

Cuddling can release oxytocin, which promotes feelings of trust, bonding, and emotional connection between partners (11).

  1. Long-term relationships can change brain function

Long-lasting romantic relationships can cause the brain to release oxytocin and vasopressin, which may strengthen emotional bonding and reduce anxiety (12).

  1. Love can improve creativity

Being in love has been linked to increased creative thinking and the generation of innovative ideas (13).

Join our workshop to learn more about these fascinating facts and enhance your love life. Explore the science behind love and relationships and discover practical strategies for nurturing romance and fostering deeper connections with your partner.

References:

  1. Robles, T. F., Slatcher, R. B., Trombello, J. M., & McGinn, M. M. (2014). Marital quality and health: A meta-analytic review. Psychological Bulletin, 140(1), 140-187.
  2. House, J. S., Landis, K. R., & Umberson, D. (1988). Social relationships and health. Science, 241(4865), 540-545.
  3. Zeki, S. (2007). The neurobiology of love. FEBS Letters, 581(14), 2575-2579.
  4. Wu, T., Luo, Y., & Broster, L. S. (2013). Neuroimaging research on love. Advances in Psychological Science, 21(1), 49-61.
  5. Fisher, H. E., Brown, L. L., Aron, A., Strong, G., & Mashek, D. (2010). Reward, addiction, and emotion regulation systems associated with rejection in love. Journal of Neurophysiology, 104(1), 51-60.

Meditation on sunset with Brahmadev, Bali.

Uluwatu, Bali, meditation with this amazing sunset.
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Meditation in Uluwatu Temple in Bali

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Meditate with me and feel the energy of this beautiful place:

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I just published my first videoblog:

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I love you

I love you,Yes, I really love you,

So please listen to me.

I have to tell you something important:

Please,

Do not expect anything.

Yes, do not expect anything from me.

Yes, I love you.

But if you expect anything from me,

You will kill our love.

Because if you don’t expect anything,

Each meeting will be our last meeting,

Each meeting will be our first meeting.

Because if you don’t expect anything, 

Every moment will be a gift,

Every moment will be a surprise,

Every moment will be our first moment.
In the presence of the now,

Every moment will be the last.

Please do not expect anything,

From me, but also from life.

Because I am the life.
Please understand,

I love you,

That’s why I want to please you,

That’s why I want to make you happy,

That’s why I want you to live,

every moment of your life,

As if it was the last.
Because you know what?

One day,

It will be the last.
Please understand,

I love you,
You are so beautiful,

You are so deep,

You are so amazing.

You are so caring,
Please understand,

Our love is a gift from the creator of the universe.

That’s why we entered the sacred together.
I love you,

Means I want to be with you,

Means I want to evolve with you.

Means I want everything with you.
And here is one of the biggest paradoxe of the universe:

If you truely love someone,

Let him free,

Let her free.

Because the moment you will project,

The moment you will expect something,

Unknown is dying,

Sacred is dying,

Potentialities become limited.
Love is something very special,

Love is like the wind,

If you put it in a box,

It dies.
Love is something very special,

If you try to own it,

You kill it.
Because love can’t be owned,

Because only love is owning you.
Please surrender to the love,
I am the mistery of life,

I am the love in the heart of every being,

I am the infinite time and space,

So please, don’t try to finite me.
Please understand, 

I truely love you,

Please don’t expect anything,

But,

Be yourself,

Be the moment,

Be the love.
Nothing to be worry,

Because you are already perfect,

I love you.
Don’t expect anything from me,

Don’t expect anything from life,

Be what you are,

Do what you have to do,

Be the moment,

Enjoy all the gifts,

I am giving to you,

Every second of your life.
Yes, you know who I am,
Brahmadev

Love

If love finds you,Please surrender to the love.

Because love will not surrender to you.

Love will kill you,

Love will destroy you,

Love will knock you down,

Love will burn you from inside.
Please, if loves find you,

Surrender,

Surrender totaly,

Surrender deeply.

Because love is more than love.

Love is God helping you to evolve.

Love is a blessing.

Falling in love is the best thing which can happen to you,

Because falling in love is receiving God’s grace.

Accept the love when love find you,

Don’t let your ego interfer.

Allow the love to kill you,

So a new “you” can rebirth,

So a better “you” can appear,

So the real “you” can emerge.

Please understand,

Love is the kiss of God,

Love is the gift of God.

It is sacred,

It is powerful,

It is stronger than you.

Please, if love finds you,

Surrender,

Or you may miss your life.
Yes,

You know who I am.

Brahmadev

The most beautiful place

“The most beautiful place in the world is in your arms.” Kunzang

Renounciation

“The only thing we should renounce is renounciation” Brahmadev”Do not renounce your ego, he can help you to realise your true nature. But do not identify with it, use it as a tool. ” Kunzang

“Renounciation is a poison, do not renounce as it is a denying of your true nature which is abundance.” Kunzang

“Wealth is your true divine nature” Brahmadev

 Beyond

“There is no beyond because everything I am.” Brahmadev

Oh sister

Oh sister
You are so beautiful
You are so wonderful

Your soul is my soul
Your heart is my heart

To the light
You connected me
With your smile
With your love
With your eyes

Where are you?
You asked me ‘where are you?’
And in your eyes
I just disappeared
And in your smile
I just vanished
Merging
With the beauty of your soul
Merging
With the beauty of your smile

In one second
I just fell
Into your infinite love

Oh my God
Thank you for this sister of light
Thank your for this magic moment

I love you, sister
I love you

Poème de Kundun / Poem by Kundun